God’s Law of Transference – The Danger of Trusting Others

God’s Law of Transference – The Danger of Trusting Others

Watch the most recent episodes in the Marriage On The Rock series

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God’s Law of Transference: Marriage Matters

The Danger of Trusting Others Above

If we don’t trust Jesus, we will automatically transfer the expectation of those needs to those closest to us, especially our spouse. Sets them up for failure.

When you depend on others to meet your deepest needs:
1. You will never be fulfilled.
2. You will become discouraged and cynical.
3. You will become bitter toward people and reject them for not meeting your expectations.

Satan’s ultimate goal is to destroy marriage and to keep us separated and unfulfilled.
Genesis 2:18 – “It is not good that man should be
alone. I will make him a helper…”
– Over-dependence creates dysfunction!

Trusting Jesus will:
a. Our hurts are healed.
– Until our past is healed, it is still controlling our present and limiting our future.
b. We are filled with His love and ability to love others.
c. Our sins and selfishness are challenged and changed into Christ’s character.

About Dr. Scott Silverii

Christ follower, husband, dad, author and retired chief of police discovering the amazing side of a servant's life.

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